And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. (1Cor 13:13)

Marriage is an amazing reflection of our intimate relationship with God. Most marriages today, however are not a relefction of the intamacy, love and mercy God has for his Children. For 15 years Kasey and I had that type of a marriage. A marriage we wanted so badly to work, a marriage we struggled so hard to reflect our love for eachother, but a marriage that was plauged by secrets, and shame. Our marriage story had become a story of regrets, addiction, failure and pain. But GOD! But GOD decided to change our story, redeem and restore our marriage and heal our pain and regrets. This is the story of how God made all things new in our marriage. A story about two hurt children who find their way to Jesus and a Life they never knew possible. Join Kasey and I as we speak about the victory and healing we have in Christ. If pornography, alcohol addiction, or infidelity, are plaguing your marriage this is the story you need to hear. If you are looking for christian counseling, marriage counseling and help for your marriage, this is the place for you. Kasey and I love to share about the grace of God in our story. To contact us to speak, or for more information and help, please feel free to reach out to me at ministry@kingdominU.com, or via my website, at www.KingdominU.com. There is a happy ending to every story in Christ. Watch our story below and Godspeed!

John 3:19-21 English Standard Version (ESV)

19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. 20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. 21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”

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A Marriage Story Redeemed and Restored

A MARRIAGE CHAT WITH PETE CABRERA JR.

My Journey to Jesus and a restored Marriage

Why Marry?

Whats marriage all about? In a day and time when sex is free, commitment is short and self is king, why marry? Why trouble yourself with the cumbersome weight that is marriage, the "ball and chain"? Why love when you can lust, why give, when you can take, why be selfless when you can be selfish, why care when you can indulge? Why? Why? Because marriage is a direct reflection of our relationship with God. Marriage isn't difficult, love doesn't fade, it's not a duty, it's LOVE. Have we forgotten that God is LOVE. Have we forgotten that they shall know us by our LOVE, have we forgotten that LOVE IS the most excellent way? Our problem is we treat our marriages as an old covenant contract of dos and don'ts trying to please our partner, and never being “satisfied" ourselves, or truly “satisfying” our partner. We find ourselves in a marriages surrounded by walls and limitations, mundane and shallow, and realize that our relationship with our Heavenly Father is suffering the same ailments. We find ourselves failing at both relationships, when we don't know who God is and we don't know who He says we are, not knowing how He fits into “our” marriage. Many marriage counselors have correctly suggested that couples not try to get their happiness from their partner, and that each one be a whole person upon entering marriage, but how do you do that? Let God LOVE YOU, LET GOD FORGIVE YOU, TRUST GOD IN EVERY PART OF YOUR LIFE INCLUDING MARRIAGE. LET GO OF CONTROL OVER EVERYTHING AND GIVE IT TO HIM. THEN ASK HIM WHO YOU ARE, WHAT HE THINKS OF YOU? You will find that He LOVES you beyond your wildest imagination, that He sacrificed, and sacrifices for you, beyond your wildest dreams, that He has peace in abundant bushels for you, patience that never ends, joy that always shines, goodness that oozes out of you, kindness that salts your way, faithfulness that dances to the beat of His heart, self control that effortlessly becomes your habit, and love that waters each one of them everyday. This fruit does not die, or get rotten, it is the product of a person rooted in who God is, for, in and through them. And a person rooted in God gets to display the fruit of God in his marriage. Our marriages are a direct reflection of our relationship with God. Heck our marriages, in a lot of ways, are our relationship with God. Why marry? Why Love? Why be Loved? Why get a chance to display God's love? Why have children you can pour that love into? Why show them and grow them in love, so that future generation can live by that love? Why share that with someone who knows you and loves you regardless of any shortcomings and failures? Why? Why? Hummmm whose idea was this anyway.......Was this Love’s idea....?

— KingdominU

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